December 2011
52 posts
dylanspencer asked: What is your opinion on Buck Angel? He's a huge asset as far as trans visibility but I really can't support the level of misogyny (trans or otherwise) and body shaming he has been doing so publicly (not to mention his support of Dan Savage) Your thoughts?
“This year, the federal government demonstrated its commitment to collecting and...”
– A Year in LGBT Issues | GPhilly
Same-sex families pay thousands more in extra... →
This is another reason we need to keep advocating for equal rights.
Warren Beatty toasts transgender son →
I’m happy to read that Warren is starting to move toward acceptance with Stephen. I remember when I first came across the story of their child transitioning that Warren was not reportedly happy or accepting. This story will hopefully give others hope who are striving toward acceptance from their parents, parent or guardian.
Ryan
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Trans Resources are Finally Up on My Website!
Hey Folks,
I finally added pages on my website that include links to transgender organizations, name change processes by state, healthcare guidelines and protocol, coming out help for youth, adults and parents, books that I recommend and more. Check out the coming out resources here and the healthcare resources here! More to come, I promise.
“The story of how Wyatt became Nicole is featured in the Boston Globe and is more...”
– For anyone out there wanting to try and reach their parents, this article may help…the quote I chose above warmed my heart.
Parents of Transgender Girl Are Better Than Most of Us | The Stir
“A Colorado-based Girl Scouts troop’s decision to admit a 7-year-old...”
– I am saddened by the girl scout leaders who are supposed to be “leaders” and “mentors” to youth showing this type of reaction toward a troupe showing acceptance and modeling what we all as human beings should be striving for, supporting our youth. - Ryan -
Girl...
“Best statement I’ve seen so far in regard to ‘Work...”
– Hatred Intensifies for Work It, the Worst Television Show in History
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A Fun and Helpful Guide for Transyouth Seeking... →
“Oh, Nebraska. How I love you. Only you could give us news with quotes like this:...”
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Bad cow.
‘Ninja Cow’ beguiles Nebraska town
Shows like 'Work It' should never air. →
I’ve just seen the advertisements for the TV show #’Work It’ and find this show to be offensive and a non-cerebral reinforcement of assumptions and stereotypes that separate “men” from “women.”
I also worry that transphobic people will use this show to try and argue against nondiscrimination laws that include, “gender identity and...
onspacehardware asked: Hello Anon! I'm a member of the group Ryan's talking about at UNCW -- there's a group that meets via Delta Behavioral Health in Wilmington and the Internationalist Bookstore & Community center holds one regularly, too. Any questions, ask away! If neither of these work for you, there's probably still people I could put you in contact with to find a better fit.
lgbtactivist asked: I am looking for a LGBT focused non profit for a social work practicum in Nebraska. None of my professors know of any :(
Anonymous asked: I was wondering if you knew of any trans support groups I could look into in North Carolina. Where I live, there isn't much of an LGBTQ community, so I'm wondering where to look for new friends and people to relate to and such. By the way, you're doing a wonderful thing. I look up to you. -Todd.
“A teen who fatally shot a gay junior high classmate in the back of the head...”
– Rest in peace, Larry King. You were taken too young. - Ryan
Calif. teen sentenced for killing gay student
Appeals court rejects anti-gay graduate student’s... →
Good work again, 11th Circuit Court!
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A Teacher's Approach to Bullying Prevention Based...
While working with schools and when contacted by youth I’m often asked about approaches or suggestions one should take to prevent bullying in the school based on an individuals gender. I think reading this article and learning how a teacher approaches this issue is invaluable and also helpful. Enjoy.
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Chaz Bono Splits With Fiancee Jennifer Elias →
Hate to say it, but I saw this one coming since July.
“Mara Keisling, executive director of the National Center for Transgender...”
– For those of you hearing people talk about this case, this article may help you gain some talking points. Both Mara Keisling and Dr. Drescher are great sources. - Ryan
Lawyers say Bradley Manning struggled with gender identity disorder | Washington Blade - America’s Leading Gay News Source
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"Doctor" Keith Albow can Suck it
This article shows how ignorant some people are and how someone can use a title to gain credit where credit isn’t deserved. Albow is a bully and in my opinion going against the hippocratic oath due to the fact that his statements cause harm, denies people access to proper healthcare and spreads misleading and untrue statements.
Suck it, Keith, just suck it.
Dr. Keith Ablow: Misinformer Of...
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Perez Hilton post on Transyouth on Youtube
Thought folks might like to check out this transyouth’s #youtube blog that documents his transition from female-to-male. It was featured on the #perezhilton blog.
Gay Couples Happier and Healthier if Legally... →
Male cheerleader gets team disqualified … because... →
This is a bunch of b.s. Ugh.
“In her quest to get her job back and in a major victory for transgender people,...”
– U.S.: Federal Court Grants Legal Victory to Transgender People
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Avoiding Emotions or Perhaps Emotionally...
I’ve never been good with expressing my feelings.
In my public speaking events, I joke that the “f-word” in my family is “feelings.” People generally laugh by the comment, I do too because in a way it is a joke, but more so it’s just the truth. This lack of understanding feelings has caused my skin to become a barrier that keeps my emotions from pushing through the darkness I hold inside. I carry...
30 Things to Stop Doing to Yourself →
A friend of mine passed this onto me. When working in health education I often try to stay away from the words “stop,” “don’t,” “should,” and “never.” However, the “stops” in this article ring very true. I am going to take these 30 tips into 2012 because I have a feeling I am going to run up against a lot more things that will be...
Anonymous asked: Hi Ryan, I saw your video clip linked on the "art of transliness" tumblr. was wondering what you meant when you wrote- I know some people now are using trans gender or trans* or trans*gender, but I feel using new forms of the term should be explained/explored in an article all of it own in order to understand the social and political implications and reasoning behind a change in term...
Anonymous asked: Sorry to ask such a personal question, but what kind of bottom surgery did you had?
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WatchI know I already posted this, but this one is a little easier to locate for those who didn’t see it the first time.
P.S. I contacted the interviewer and asked her to change the term to “transgender.” I know some people now are using trans gender or trans* or trans*gender, but I feel using new forms of the term should be explained/explored in an article all of it own in order to...
http://lambdalegal.org/sites/default/files/publicat... →
I am proud of the work Lambda Legal does and also what I have seen happen over the past three years in the U.S. under #Obama regarding #LGBTQ issues. We have a long ways to go, but the more we break down the wall, the smaller it gets. If you are looking to give year end donations, consider #Lambalegal. - Ryan
News Video Interview on being Transgender →
Hope all of you who watch enjoy this!
One Man's Story of Being Trans Gender in Nebraska →
Super happy with the way this article was written, even though spelling “trans gender” before, but we’ll let that one slide :) I will post the video as soon as it shows up on their website.
Transgender patients on rise, but medical care and... →
I’ve worked for over seven years on educating/working with medical providers regarding how to work with #transgender and #LGBQ clients. This article just reiterates to me that the work I do is needed, I just need to find ways to make people realize I’m here to help. — Ryan
Doctors don’t learn how to treat transgender patients in medical school and the medical...
“The number of major U.S. companies covering the cost of gender reassignment...”
– Gender Reassignment: Number Of Big U.S. Companies Covering Transgender Surgery Rises
A Courageous Lesbian High School Student Wins the... →
Something I truly love about the current generation in high school is how they question the world, use their critical thinking, and fight to express their individual identity. A lot of us do this, but usually it happens in college or after a lot of internal struggle. The strength and courage that I see coming out of younger generations are inspiring to me.
Bullied teen responds to fake video claims →
“Stay strong, Jonah,” Mulvihill wrote. “You really are a firework.”
I am saddened to think that people call this kid a liar because in a follow up video four months later he is more energetic. First, he is a teenager, so his emotions are raw and may seem a bit immature, but we all need to think about how we reacted to things when we were in the 8th grade. I can say for...
Hillary Clinton's Landmark Speech to the UN on... →
Worth a watch. Each year that goes by, the more I love Hillary.
“Research on gender nonconformity also has implications for education...”
– Acceptance Is Protection: How Can Parents Support Gender Nonconforming And Transgender Children? - ScienceNewsline
“In an atmosphere of increasingly aggressive, militaristic tactics by police...”
– Michelangelo Signorile: Escalating Police Violence and Transgender People
To All Anonymous People
I allow an “anonymous” option on the “ask me anything” section in order to allow people who either don’t want their identity to be out or are scared to ask me questions related to transition issues, coming out, dealing with family, etc. It is not an invitation for people to send me questions that are directly correlated to my own life. So when you phrase questions,...
Transgender Va. inmate wants sex change operation... →
The judges ruling, “U.S. District Judge James Turk dismissed Ophelia De’Lonta’s lawsuit in October, saying the state was treating her gender identity disorder, a mental diagnosis in which people believe they were born the wrong sex.” Is why we need to continue to educate the public and providers about the changes in beliefs and advances in understanding that being transgender is NOT a...
“There are nearly 700,000 transgender individuals in the U.S., or 0.3% of the...”
– Transgender: By the numbers - Times Union
Neil Patrick Harris Apologizes For Transgender... →
Oh Neil….I’m glad you apologized immediately after this statement, but I’m sad that the word “tranny” ever came out of your mouth.
Discrimination Against Transgender People - Recent... →
This article covers the current list of national suits and victories the ACLU are working on regarding discrimination against transgender individuals.
Anonymous asked: I've been told many times by my teachers, math especially that I am not allowed to go to the nurse office unless I am sick. I know it's not good for me but there isn't anything I can do. My counselor AND a teacher suggested going to the nurses office to avoid awkwardness in the female bathroom but my teachers won't allow me and we don't have gender neutral bathrooms. It...
Anonymous asked: What recomendations do you have for taller trans men like myself trying to find an stp packer that is more natural looking size wise and detail wise? Any resources on where to order from also?
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“o address the significant health care disparities of transgender individuals and...”
– Ob-Gyns: Prepare to Treat Transgender Patients
I would love to train these offices. I am writing clinician guidelines for a national non-profit organization right now on this very topic!