Ryan Scout_FTM

Anytime someone considers or is preparing to share their transition story I first recommend to think about what aspects you are comfortable sharing and what aspects you want to remain private. After you answer that, then set up the talk with letting the audience know where your comfort is in regard to questions that they may have.

The next thing to think about is what information in your life should you be hesitant sharing with the public. This is different than where your comfort is due to the fact that there may be some things you are comfortable with sharing, but they may be things that will invade your privacy and safety in the future. For example sharing where you work or providing images of the front of your house, your class schedule etc. Educating the public is important, but your own safety should be a priority.

The last thing I recommend is remembering that when speaking, you are sharing your own story and experiences, and to let the audience know that what your life decisions are, are different and most likely do not look like another person who identifies as transgender. If a question is asked that you are unsure of, don’t try to answer it in a general way, answer it in a way that is related to your own experiences.

I hope this helps. I’ve been speaking with audiences since the year 2000 (before doing work in the area of LGBTQ I worked/still do with eating disorders) and am still learning!

Ryan