Ryan Scout_FTM

Ryan Sallans, activist and author, transitioned from female to male in 2005 and has recounted his life experiences in his newly released memoir, Second Son: Transitioning Toward My Destiny, Love and Life.

Since he began he has been committed to education surrounding medical, legal and social issues related to the transgender community. This blog serves as a guide and resource for individuals seeking guidance in the transgender community or for friends, family, lovers and partners who are eager to learn more about how a transition may impact the individual's life and those around them.


He has maintained a transition website since 2005 with the goal of helping others through his story and experiences. People can visit his site at: http://www.ryansallans.com
http://www.secondsonmemoir.com
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Asker Anonymous Asks:
I feel so overwhelmed and hopeless when researching how to start my transition, ie T and top surgery. My insurance only mentions bottom surgery under "sex reassignment". And if they do cover what I need, because of the requirements I may not get coverage for 2/3 bloody years. I don't know what to do or where to start, i just want to start t at least, or even figure out how. Any pointers in the right direction would be immensely appreciated.
ryansallans ryansallans Said:

Hi,

When you state that your insurance mentions “bottom surgery under sex reassignment” are you saying that your plan covers it? If so, that is good news because it most likely means that the policy will cover other medical treatments as well. 

In order to get started, I first recommend finding a therapist that works with transgender clients. I have a blog on my tumblr that goes through the steps to finding a therapist (if you scroll through you will find it). After working with a therapist, ask yourself what you want your journey to look like and what you feel are your short-term versus long-term goals.

If you want to start T first, then along with finding a therapist, find a trans-friendly provider who also works with transgender clients. If you tell me what region you live in, I may have resources for you, otherwise you can run a google search, or visit Hudson’s FTM Resource guide, or run a search through WPATH, GLMA, and Trans411. (Make sure that the provider and the therapist are aware of Version 7 of the Standards of Care that are put out by WPATH. The new version does not denote a length of time a person should be in therapy prior to starting hormones are what steps a person should go through in their journey, they have finally recognized this is an individual process!)

Feeling overwhelmed is understandable, what I always recommend is not to try and plan/think of everything all at once, focus on one thing at a time and appreciate the experience you have with that step. I always say that in a way, a transition process is a life-long process, even after surgeries or hormones each day, month, year is a learning process and new challenge to understanding who we are and what our purpose is on this planet. 

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